Monday, January 25, 2010

An Eye to the Future

Being a homeschool group leader, I have the responsibility of trying to make changes that will benefit the group in the coming years. This is a hard place to be in because no matter how hard you try, you just can't please everyone. Add in the fact that I will not even be in leadership the next year and things just get that much more complicated.

In look at our group I see a lot of new families who are just starting their homeschooling journey and see the need for changes that would benefit them as they are the next generation of leaders that will need to hold this group together if it is to continue to exist. Yet there are the "old timers" (such as myself now) that want to continue things as they have been, and who sometimes think they know best about it all. I tend to lean towards the idea of bringing in the newbies and helping them to form this group according to their needs. And this means a struggle with the "old timers" to create positive change.

Overall, I feel confident that I will be leaving this group better than I came into it no matter if I find a replacement leader or not, or if I make changes catered to the newbies while upsetting those who resist change, because in the end it all has to be about the kids, not so much the parents. We do what we do for our children so they can receive the best education possible. Maybe that is the focus for the future. Finding those individuals who are dedicated to that one simple fact and allowing them to come in and take over the group. But isn't that what we are supposed to be doing anyway? It seems to me that the focus has been blocked out by drama and other silly events that mean nothing in the way of progress. I say it is time to focus and eye on the future of the group and make changes accordingly.

Time to prepare for tomorrow's leadership meeting...


Saturday, January 23, 2010

An Amazing Read!


I was given a chance to read History of the Medieval World by Susan Wise Bauer.
And what a read it was! What captivating stories of old, and written so fluidly. Being a very visual person, I found that I was able to see the stories unfold in my head as I read them. I can't wait to purchase it and share it with my daughters. If you are looking for an amazing set of history books either for yourself or for your teens, check out any and all written by Susan Wise Bauer!



Sunday, December 6, 2009

Opportunity to Review a Book!!

I read a few blogs here and there, but one I am reading all the time is Susan Wise Bauer's blog (http://www.susanwisebauer.com/blog/). She has written many books. I was turned on to her blog by a friend of mine who uses The Well Trained Mind for homeschooling. A book Susan Bauer wrote and one I have used as well.

Mrs. Bauer is in process of finishing up her new book, History of the Medieval World and I have been given the opportunity to read a "in the works" copy. After I read it, I then write a review/personal feelings blog on the book. This is a high school/college level book that fits in with her younger versions of the History of the World series. My teenager is reading the first one, History of the Ancient World and I'm feeling really lucky to get this chance to read the second book before it comes out. So come back by in a few days or so and I'll let you know what I thought of the book! And check out her blog when you get a chance!





Thursday, November 26, 2009

Thanksgiving!

What an awesome opportunity to learn about the 1600's and Colonial times. We started by reading about the voyage of the Mayflower, and discussed what life may have been like on the voyage. My youngest daughter was saddened by the thought of people not being able to wonder about the ship on their own, but instead having to stay below. I am sure it sunk in that this was probably due to safety mostly. Ha! I said sunk. Not on purpose though.

Then we went on to study about the ship itself. We learned about the different ropes and sales, and the different parts of the ship and what they were called. My children were certain that they would never have survived on such a tiny ship with so many people. They have never been on a sale boat, or any other type of boat that they can remember. Perhaps that is a side activity we can research for later.

Next we talked about fashion which is a subject we as females can talk a lot about. We discussed the clothes, and found pictures of what an outfit would have looked like. We discussed what it must have been like to always be covered from neck to toe with layers of fabric all of the time. I don't know about you, but I am pretty sure I would have been miserable. I like my shorts and t-shirts, although, I do live in the desert. We ended the study of clothes with drawings of a colonial man and woman's outfit. I was blown away with the free hand drawings the girls came up with. I will post them later.

On to the next part of the study. We talked living conditions. This was a great lesson for the girls about space and stuff. My girls realized that they would go bonkers in a small 16 x 20 cabin with nothing to do other than sew and cook. However, we talked about how this was the norm for women, and that they would not have known the difference back then. My oldest realized that they were blessed with lots of stuff. Stuff like clothes and the convenience of food variety, an indoor bathroom, and many other modern items. Something she is now grateful for. This is a huge lesson and one I'm glad she learned. In the end we built log cabins and used what we could find outside to make them look authentic. More pics for later!

Next we went off the deep end a bit and built a turkey. Why? Because we could. We used Styrofoam to build the body, and colored sticks to build the feathers. It was simple, but effective. It turned out well and gave us a break from the seriousness of the study. Again, pictures later.

The study took a turn towards food finally. It had to as we had just built a turkey! We talked about the difference between what we eat today for Thanksgiving, and what was eaten back in the 1600s. "No cherry pie!?" Nope. "Awe, they were missing out!" This from my 11 year old. We proceeded to make a menu with breakfast, dinner, and supper. (This ignited a long discussion on why the word lunch was not on the list.) And there was definitely no cherry pie on the menu. No pie but possum or squirrel which grossed my girls out to think about eating. Yummy!

We decided to make some butter which my girls had never done before. Boy were they in for a treat! We took a plastic container, placed a cup of heavy whipping cream in it, plopped in 4 very well washed marbles, and closed the lid. Then the fun really began when the shaking commenced! Trying to keep it going for almost 27 minutes was not so bad with three of us, however, it did work out the arms a bit more than planned. Yet, 27 minutes and Wha-La!! Butter! They were amazed and anxious to taste it. So we broke out the french bread and enjoyed a little.

As it is Thanksgiving Day today, I will have to take a break and continue with cooking and being thankful for all we are blessed with. But there is more to share about our study, and I will work on it later. For now, have a super blessed day! And make sure you share what and maybe who you are thankful for.




Saturday, November 21, 2009

A Successful Event

Oh what joy it is to have an event go smooth. We had our fall formal event with our teens, and it went so well. Our teens were amazing, and seemed to have a great time. And they planned it all and pulled it off. If only all events cold go as well.

But instead of going on about the negatives of other events, I will continue to focus on the positives of this one. The decorations were great. A black and white theme and masks to make it fun. There were candles, flowers, balloons, music, and more. Dinner was at the Cheesecake Factory and everyone looked to have a great time there. And watching the teens dance and having fun was the best part of the night. All of them seemed to have a good time, including the chaperons, some of whom took part in a little Hokey Poky and Chicken Dance. :)

Just an amazing time for all. Can't wait to have another event.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Drama 101

As you may remember, I have taken on a leadership role as a homeschool leader for a large homeschool group. This was not something I was looking to do, it just sort of fell into my lap. And this blog was supposed to be my place to share about this journey through leadership.
Well, the year is half over already. It's been a bit busy as you will see.
So here are the issue I have dealt with this first half of the year:

Safety
Gossip
Having a Student Council
Dancing/Dances
Dating/Dates
Mail/Mail Boxes
Payments and Deposits
Music
Hugging
Budget
Membership
Room Requests/Reservations
Dress Code

I know I could think of more that I am forgetting, but this is the main stuff I can remember at this moment. Every issue has been a learning experience and I have grown from the lessons learned. That is what I try to focus on when dealing with challenges like these.

The biggest lesson I have taken from all of this so far? That parents are the ones usually making non issues an issue rather than the kids. This then starts the domino affect that leads to the kids complaining or spreading rumors, or sometimes setting us adults straight. It has made for a difficult year so far, but one I feel blessed to experience since I am able to take what I learn with me at the end and apply it elsewhere.

Another lesson? I can't wait to find my replacement. I don't mean for that to sound so bad, but with the amount of work one does for this job and the amount of time spent dealing with all the drama, it becomes taxing on the soul. I am also a mom, a homeschool teacher, a substitute teacher, a non-profit board member, a wife, a full time student, care taker to my mother on occasion, and am about to take on volunteering at my church for a counseling program. I have a lot on my plate and dealing with drama is not high on my priority list. So, I will be moving on from this adventure very soon. But until then, I will do my best to continue to share my experiences a little better. So check in soon for more updates.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Home School Leadership - I'm ready to find my replacement

This has been a challenging year for me, yet one full of hard lessons and inspiring moments. And although I have grown a ton, it's time to face reality. I need a replacement! So, I am going to be praying about who will fit the bill. There are some I think would love to take over, and some I think would love to give it the old college try! But there really is one person who would be great at it, who has the knowledge of both the good and evil, and who has been around the block a few. Whether or not she realizes it yet, can't say, but I hope she will. I hope she jumps right in and takes the rains and leads us on as I know she can. Prayer. Lots of prayer.